Visit Your Old Folks …Please!

By Vic Odarve

Few people learned that a visit to our old aged parents will keep the elderly physically young, emotionally happy, and create new memories in our lifetime.

Years ago we visited them. Now, they are gone.

If we are living in a far-flung area or across the continent it is wise to visit our elderly at least once a year.  A visit may give a chance to evaluate their health and well – being. You can check your loved ones if they need the extra help of medications as well as finances. In this way we know their physical well-being, making sure that nothing has changed since your last visit.

A visit to our elderly at home also keeps them emotionally happy. Your physical presence is something else engaging and more satisfying than mere words and greeting cards can offer. This is a valuable reminder that you love and thinking of them even you are living far away. This makes them smile more than words can tell. A visit will remind them that you love them before they left on this planet. Your presence and the presence of your children bring light and life into their home and dispels their loneliness. Obviously, a feeling of contentment and the boost of the sensation of joy they get from the visit keep them emotionally happy.

During our heydays. Today, some are living, others are gone.

Most of our old folks live alone since most of the children have all grown-ups, moved out, and have their own families. Thus, some may have experienced depression which is detrimental to their health. A visit can make them feel less lonely and can ward off any depression, social isolation or stress. During our visit, our grandparents sometimes retold old stories about their life and favorite photographs during their heydays. Family history and genealogy of your grandparents and ancestors and the real-life stories and experiences are also often told to the children. These connections brought forth a lot of happy times for both of us and our old aged parents. A sweet and refreshing memory!

Though a visit for our parents in their old age can be seen as burdens and is not an obligation that the youngest generations tried to point out, these youngsters are quick to forget the sacrifices their parents made while they are on their fold. They do not know that their presence keeps the elderly feeling young, makes them happy, and create memories.

Fun and get together during their heydays

Regular visits help maintain existing connections…emotionally, mentally and physically, something more precious than gold. Your visit will brighten their day and yours.  The Bible puts it;

“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.” Exodus 20:12

Who knows? Your visit may be the last magical moments you got in touch with your elderly parents because one day before you know it, your grandparents or parents are gone.

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